Wednesday, January 14, 2009

2008... What a year!

Merry Christmas and Happy 2009 to everyone (sorry this post is appearing a bit late! Its been on my "To Do" list for weeks!)

As Kevin & I look back upon 2008, we are astounded at the year we had. When I think of 2008, I come up with some key adjectives: wonderful, exciting, chaotic, loving, amazing, busy, lively, exhausting... and the list continues.

2008 was Brendan's first full year and we managed to pack a lot into that year. January 2008 was when we sadly said goodbye to the last of our "Baby Brendan" visitors. We were so glad to have so many friends and family come and see Bren in his early newborn days.

Much of the early part of 2008 was spent in Cambridge, enjoying time with each other and getting to know life in Cambridge with a baby. I met some great mums through my "1st time mum's group"and they proved to be a great support through some of the unfamiliar baby territory.

In April, we stretched our wings and took a trip to Spain. It was Bren's 1st flight, and he was a natural. We had a terrific time with Eric and Aine - they were terrific hosts and we enjoyed spending time with them. While we were there, Bren was teething very badly - his top front teeth were coming through and caused him some major pain. Eric proved to be a natural Dad with his magic pram skills, and Aine proved her patience as Bren cried almost non-stop for our entire stay. Sorry guys, but we did have a great time!




May and June was quite a busy time for Kevin and I. For Kev, his consultancy business was going from strength to strength and was gaining new contracts all the time. Combined with his full-time job with the UK company he was working with, Kev was a very busy guy! At this time, I was also in the process of getting back into my PhD studies. It has taken quite a lot of time to sweep out the cobwebs that seemed to have formed in my ol' brain during the pregnancy and early days of motherhood. I'm sure the sleepless nights also had something to do with it!

It was during this time that we were introducing Bren to the wonderful world of solids. We decided to follow the "Baby Led Weaning" method, and it proved to be great fun. Rather than pureeing everything, we gave Bren food in its whole form. He had a great time munching his way through pears, biscuits, cheese, pasta, grapes. We now have quite the little gourmet... He loves his food and is quite adventurous. He now eats just about everything we do - curry, chinese spring rolls, and of course fish & chips!

In August, we headed home for a Canadian holiday. We had a very busy but great time seeing everyone. Our first week was spent at a cottage up in Muskoka. It was great to be outdoors, with my boys enjoying the lake and the wilderness. Back down in Mississauga, we enjoyed seeing our friends and family at the parties and gatherings. While it wasn't quite the same as before Bren was born, we still had a great time. Bren didn't really settle into "Ontario Time" and was awake for A LOT of the time we were home. I dont' think that we slept for more than 2 hours at a time! I don't think I've ever been so exhausted in all my life. But that said, it was still nice being around those that we love. It made us realise how much we miss everyone from home.

Once we got back to Cambridge, we enrolled Bren with a childminder so that I could spend a bit more time focussing on my PhD. Bren & Lyn get along really well, and he has a great time with her. They attend a play group and a music group, both of which he loves. Its so reassuring having him looked after by someon you trust and feel totally comfortable with. We're really lucky.
In early October, we decided to visit with my godmother and her husband in the South of France. They live in a lovely stone house in the middle of the Languedoc region, surrounded by rolling hills and vineyards. We had an amazing time eating amazing food, hiking, and enjoying wonderful company. I'll be honest - the thought of escaping to France crossed my mind a few times while we were there!

On the 24th of October, Bren turned 1. I feel like I blinked and 12 months had passed. So hard to believe! We had a lovely party with some friends and celebrated. See the post below for all the juicy details.

For Bren's birthday, Kev surprised us with a mid-week getaway to Belton Woods, a country hotel for families. We had a lovely time together, especially the swimming pool where our little "fish" splashed the days away.

Before I knew it, the holiday season was upon us. We decided to have a quiet family Christmas at home. We would have liked to travel to be with family and friends, but the thought of travelling with Bren and a million others was too much to bear! We had a great time at home, just the 3 of us. Santa was very good to us and spoiled us rotten. The Chrismas tree glowed while Raffi's Christmas album played. It was great to have the soundtrack from Christmases past become part of new memories. Boxing day was a lazy day for us. Bren helped Kevin try out the new bicycle seat that they got from Santa. On the 27th, we headed up to my Nana's house to visit with her and my mum. We spent the week with them and had a great time. It was nice to be out of Cambridge for a little while. Nana had recently gotten 2 new chihuahua puppies - Bren LOVED them! They had great times chasing each other around the sitting room! Too fun! Kev & I went up to the Farmer's Arms pub to ring in the New Year with a few fireworks and a few drinks. A quiet celebration, but a great way to ring in the new year.

We thought we'd keep the holiday spirit alive with a few more days away in East Anglia. It was rather a spur of the moment decision to go - We woke up and saw the sun shining and decided to go exploring. We ended up in an amazing little village called Levanham. The whole village seems to have been frozen in time from the 15th Century. It was so wonderfully wonky. We liked it so much that we decided to stay at one of the country hotels. The Swan is now one of my FAVOURITE hotels. The room was unbelievably beautiful and the food was fantastic! I'm trying to convince Kevin that we should go back!

I am so blessed to have a wonderful husband and an amazing little boy. They make me smile everyday and make me feel like the luckiest wife/mummy in the world. Its been a challenging year, but I can honestly say that its been a great year... After all, "the harder the climb, the better the view"!

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